tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72915352660655449592024-03-13T10:10:11.468-04:00The Feminine ContextThat's what SHE said, and this is what she MEANT.The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-7345605122984459742018-02-25T15:52:00.001-05:002018-02-25T15:52:53.241-05:00American Gun Rights: Why are we fighting to keep guns in the hands of future criminals?<div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="7fcfg" data-offset-key="bmaqt-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;">
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<span data-offset-key="bmaqt-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">The idea that some person with guns is going to fight off the government isn't a sound one for arguing for gun rights. For one thing, the examples of Waco and Ruby Ridge should have pretty much summed up by now why that's a bad argument. If the government wants to take you out, they are taking you out. That in itself is a major problem that gun culture is not only NOT solving, its probably making worse by suggesting to people that having stores of weapons is somehow going to make them safe in a conflict, whereas we're probably just more likely to witness another standoff wherein children are put into danger and more often than not, killed.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="1o73i-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">In the same breath I hear "criminals don't follow laws so how is making guns illegal going to stop them", which lines "criminals" out like people that aren't any of "us" and that's ridiculous. Things that are perfectly legal in ONE state would make you a "criminal" in another. Criminality comes usually out of a place of desperation, lack of education and/or opportunity, existential threat, deprivation, etc. Most people are not born with a "criminal" mindset, and even the mentally ill are usually not specifically more dangerous to a society (some extremely rare exceptions do exist, but writing the mentally ill off as a whole is a careless and dangerous thing to do). A life circumstance beyond your immediate control could force you into engaging in "criminal" acts to save your life or protect your family. You know, like shooting a person (which is pretty much illegal). </span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="cnn3g-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">For some, legal use of guns and legal gun ownership is considered more criminal than others. We have a law enforcement and judicial system that disproportionately impacts people of darker skin. Racism in relation to gun access and laws is a whole different Pandora's box of problems, as well. <a href="https://www.cnn.com/2017/06/20/us/philando-castile-shooting-dashcam/index.html" target="_blank">Philando Castile</a> was not a criminal, informed an officer appropriately about having a gun that he was licensed to carry, and was shot to death as a passenger in a car in front of his girlfriend and her toddler. Had that jumpy ass officer aimed his gun so much as an inch to the right, he'd have SHOT that toddler in her car seat. More guns did not help that situation. <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2017/03/marissa-alexander-case-stand-your-ground-florida.html" target="_blank">Marissa Alexander</a> was being abused and was in fear of her and her infant's life, so she fired a WARNING SHOT into the upper corner of a wall in her home to scare back her abusive husband and was GIVEN 20 YEARS in prison, while the next year in the same state <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Zimmerman#Trayvon_Martin_shooting_and_trial" target="_blank">George Zimmerman shot and killed Trayvon Martin</a>, whom he had literally stalked during the course of an evening and was told by law enforcement to stop following and he was let off on the same "stand your ground" defense that failed Ms. Alexander (whose conviction was thrown out on appeal after a few years, thank God). More guns are not helping in these situations either. </span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="8o4mp-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">So, we have some incompatible ideas going on here. If you engage in a standoff against police (enforcement arm of government), that's pretty illegal and would be considered criminal behavior. Hell, I would think that planning for such an event in advance by its own nature would be considered conspiracy in regard to future criminal acts. Yet, I find that a commonality found with the pro-gun crowd is a pro-police mentality, yet at the same time, the pro-gun crowd tends to bandy about the idea that you have to have guns to fight off the government which would first be ..the police. So, you don't want "criminals" to be the only ones getting guns cause what.. if.. you.. need.. to do something.. criminal, too? I don't get it.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="4bd5c-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Rather, I do get it, but it's hypocritical as fuck and a dangerous mindset to feel that you're entitled to kill people but no one else is. Yet at the same time, lets make sure people have more guns.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="50oli-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Seriously, fuck this. Keep a lever-action rifle at home in case shit gets hairy or you have a maniac banging down your door. Tell me why you need to not only have guns, but an armory full of guns that can kill people faster than fuck, like rapid-fire weapons? </span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="99ocd-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">I support the Green party platform.<b> I do NOT support the rise of the "Green party twatform". </b></span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="7k21i-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Take your party shaming, purity testing shit down the ramp. We can have these kinds of petty difference squabbles when we knock down a few immediate, looming, BIG FUCKING PROBLEMS we should probably be dealing with instead.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="8lhmt-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Get your noses out of joint, goddamnit. We have shit to do, all of us. I'm done listening to everything and everyone be maligned over some nonsensical tinfoil hat, chemtrail, hippie bullshit purity tests that literally any and everyone could fail. </span><span style="font-family: inherit;">I'm done watching people IN the Green groups nitpicking each other and everyone else to death. It's counter-productive and I'm not going to be involving myself in it, listening to/reading it, or entertaining that bullshit. Keep it AWAY from me.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="al818-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;"><b>#2: We all know INTENTIONAL, institutional racism is wrong and shitty. It's literally killing people every day. We seem to be way too content with ignoring inadvertent personal racism, and that's the death of progress.</b></span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="9nujl-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Inadvertent personal racism is also wrong and shitty, but its both common and a phenomena that (as we can see from the last week or two) gets caught in a web of cognitive dissonance and hurt feelings, then silkspun by a great big defensive spider to the point that we can't even see the elements to the problem anymore. Fuck, we could barely see it to begin with and that's why it occurred.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It's not terribly difficult to fix, in practice. We're just scared of the practice for a variety of reasons (upon which people can, have, and do write endless academic papers that I won't emulate here). The point being, we sometimes need to shut up and listen and not assume we're being maligned because someone wants us to stop what we were doing and CONSIDER doing something else. You're not being attacked for being asked to listen to an alternate viewpoint.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">We're making assumptions that are defensive and insecure, and its literally suffocating any hope of a productive conversation. When you are confronted, the assumption is NOT (and should not necessarily be immediately perceived as such) that you are a BAD person because you did something that someone found offensive or that you were oblivious to something that elicited very strong, negative reactions in someone else. If that were the case, the person petitioning your ear wouldn't be bothering. The assumption instead is that you are a GOOD person with sense who might simply be unaware of aspects to certain situations that you haven't had the opportunity to experience the exact same way as someone else.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">That's it, y'all. The assumption you can actually SAFELY make is that we all see the world through different lenses, crafted by our experiences, relationships, and society. The SAFE assumption from that is simply that your experience is quite probably not exactly the same as someone else's. </span><span style="font-family: inherit;">From that assumption, you can drop the defensiveness and actually hear what someone else has to say when they question your statements or actions. Being asked to think is not a punishment.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="7lm0u-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Inadvertent racism helps to support intentional racism, which is why it must be carefully deconstructed. Now, sometimes unpacking this inadvertent racism can be tricky. Know that its not SUPPOSED to "feel good" all the time. Growth does not come from remaining perpetually in comfortable and familiar places. </span><span style="font-family: inherit;">Sometimes that means you're going to have to call out that one relative you really like, like Auntie Clau--- er.. </span><i style="font-family: inherit;">CINDY</i><span style="font-family: inherit;">, and tell her she's got shit backwards. It's going to make you feel like crap because you know she was oblivious to what she did, but you also know that there are at least five truths you can count on here:</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="h5mq-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;"><b>2: ^ Same thing goes for "wrong".</b></span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="b5uo4-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;"><b>3: It might be better that you be the one to take her aside and try to explain things, before everyone on the Internet hands her a silver platter with her own ass on it.</b></span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="fl9dt-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;"><b>4: "Letting it go" as a friend/family member only reinforces more of that behavior/speech/action. If you're never "wrong" there's no incentive or reason to change.</b></span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="d2tc2-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;"><b>#3: Can everyone stop being so fucking reactionary for like FIFTEEN MINUTES?</b> </span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="d2tc2-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">With the amount of drive and heart within progressive people, we might actually make something out of that fifteen minutes if everyone could stop trying to find excuses to change their status to "Butthurt" at all times.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="29jgs-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">This goes for everyone. Not just the people getting the hurt feels. This goes for you assholes with the witty comments who KNOW you're rubbing salt in an already salty wound. </span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="29jgs-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">For fucks' sake, knock this shit off for a week. Everyone needs to either organize and get the fuck over shit, or take a brief vacation. </span></div>
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-22392722827333966042017-02-06T16:03:00.002-05:002017-02-06T16:03:26.619-05:00Divide to Conquer: Progressive Parties For AllOkay fellow and beloved progressive people. We need to have a civil, polite, respectful conversation about party affiliation. We need to pick parties. We need to accept not only that we're not all going to pick the same parties, but that it might be in our best interest to NOT all pick the same party. Even better, supporting each other toward taking needed, differing directions might be the most empowering thing we could do to forward progressive change in our country.<br />
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I've seen people suggesting that we join the Republican party to forward progressive candidates THERE because the Democratic party is far too corrupt to trust again. Some of us want to go Green/Independent/(Insert Alternate Party Here), and some of us want to go rip roots out of the current Democratic party and start there. As you continue to read, when I refer to the Green party, please assume I am referring to them and any other 3rd party that is trying to create its own power base.<br />
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The true answer is that all of these approaches can and will work, provided everyone can stop being assholes about it. We can actually divide and conquer, moving all of these directions simultaneously. I think that might be the best way to go, if purely for the sake of MOVEMENT. Right now, we're not moving anywhere and doing anything. Currently, we're all too damn busy beating one another about the head for so much as considering a party affiliation that seems to oppose our own party of choice.<br />
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A progressive infiltration of any party, and even all parties at once, very much COULD work. Ripping one another to shreds is going to make this multi-pronged attack a lot more difficult, though.<br />
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Personally, I'm heading back into the fray of the Dem party SPECIFICALLY to go in there and cause nothing but hell for the people currently in power. My aim is to help elect NEW people and to maintain my ability to vote where it counts, object where it counts, and I don't have any notions of uniting with corporatist Dems. I will not be donating money directly to the Dem party to do what it wants to do - if I were to donate time or money, it will be toward SPECIFIC candidates trying to move into that party who reflect my progressive values.<br />
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I don't know how successful the idea of moving into the Republican party will actually be, but the mere act of moving forward and attempting to work on common ground principles within the GOP could only result in one of two things: either progress toward building better Republicans, or a massive "brick wall" opposition of exisiting Republicans, which should be enough to get progressives to eventually abandon the idea and find a party affliation they CAN work with. I can see a lot of good work being done by progressives should they enter the Republican party, if just because that party (like the Dems) requires a bit of agitation in its ranks and a re-evaluation of what's important to American voters.<br />
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I do NOT believe we will encounter the same sorts of resistance in the Democrat party because progressive voters and Democratic voters do share a lot of the same ideals and values. The disagreement between the two left-leaning groups focuses mainly on whether the DNC is trustworthy or properly conducting its business. While Dems and Progressives DO agree, Progressives would like to take their fight farther left and the main argument with current Democrats is simply that they don't think its entirely possible. This is not exactly a disagreement so much as a lack of faith in a system that BOTH groups can agree is slow, ineffective, and unwilling to take bold steps.<br />
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As the Trump administration carries on, I see a huge potential for the Dem party to sweep in a massive number of members for the sole purpose of ridding our country of Trump. The republican party is currently doing itself no favors by backing him in all of his obscenely awful executive orders, and its becoming abundantly clear that Trump has no idea what he's doing from day to day. There is every reason to believe that as the public grows weary of Trump, they're going to lean to whichever direction appears to be the strongest opposition to him. The majority of American voters lean toward one of the two major ruling parties, and since Republicans chose Trump as their man, there's only one clear direction to go to oppose him.<br />
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I think we're foolish to assume that the Democractic party will do anything but strengthen as Trump's admininstration continues to agitate the American public. As such, our standing on our "principles" by avoiding them entirely isn't going to hurt Team Blue a goddamn bit. The Democratic party doesn't need US to get the majority numbers they will need to rise in power. Trump's going to do all that work for them, and they can sit back and reap the rewards of it in due time. Leaving the DNC to its own devices, staying OUT of it and not demanding any change from them is going to allow corporatist Democrats to run wild with power in 2018 and 2020.<br />
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We've seen this before. While there are a handful of us (comparitively speaking) who will do our research and will ask the hard questions, most voters are fairly apathetic. A large number of people who intend to vote, somehow don't make it out. Lots of people will flat out tell you they don't vote because they see no point in it. The general unwillingness to vote is a clear indicator of how habituated Americans are to corruption, and it results in a certain kind of listless apathy which makes voters easier to manipulate.<br />
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That being said, I really and truly support Green candidates across the board, as the Green party doesn't accept or promote corporatism. When possible in general/midterm elections, I'm happy to vote for Greens if no one progressive enough for my liking is running under the Blue banner or if said Green candidate is a better choice. If I feel this way about Greens, why am I not JOINING the Greens?<br />
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Greens are simply weak, if not utterly ineffective in the face of the two predominant ruling parties. On the state level, Greens can start working to gain a lot of power in their regions and should do so. Purely on state and regional levels, Greens COULD, in fact, make a lot happen. On a national level, the two ruling parties are going to need to have their foundations rocked and their monolithic presence chiseled down a bit to afford the Greens ANY potential as a national force to be reckoned with.<br />
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It's going to take a weakening of the two national parties' dominance and opposition to a third party uprising, and some major grassroots effort on the part of the Green in order for this to happen. There is literally no way around the fact that a lot of changes will HAVE to be made to allow for third parties to get a foothold, and that we desperately need more than two parties if we're ever to have proper representation of the needs and will of the people.<br />
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Take note of this in that I am not writing off the Green party entirely. Our problem is that we need to pursue realistic long-term goals, and its going to take some time to develop the Green party appropriately to present a national threat to the current duopoly. Those of us in states where there's not a snowball's chance in hell at developing a strong Green base can actually HELP along the Green party by aligning ourselves with one of the two major national parties and raising what hell we can toward the pursuit of placing progressive-minded candidates in whatever party positions we can. It's more realistic to consider 3rd parties an eventual goal that currently needs participants within all parties to ensure their national viability in the future.<br />
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I think we're shooting ourselves in the damn foot with all this division, silencing, purity testing, and nonsense. It's going to take all of us, but we're not going to be afforded the luxury of moving in one specific direction (as we did behind Bernie) for the greatest amount of change to occur. Some states have a GREAT number of progressive citizens and common ideals, and Greens have an excellent starting point to build a hell of a party within those specific regional areas. On the national level, however, the two party system currently reigns supreme and I cannot fathom any way to break that stranglehold unless the Republican and Democratic parties are either weakened or modified from the inside, with a strong emphasis on changing how they typically do business and why.<br />
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So, in essence, JOIN the party that you want to pursue change within. It's fine. Join the one you see avenues and angles you could work. Either way any of us go, its going to be a hell of a fight. We have to cease the infighting, though, lest it just be used against us and our goals. I think we're better off with representatives everywhere, pushing forward, than we are sitting in our frustrated herds and nitpicking one another to death.<br />
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Why couldn't we do this, instead? Why couldn't we not only join the parties we feel we could exert changes and progressive empowerment within, and STILL be united. We could share strategies and campaigns between us, crossing party lines and developing non-partisan solutions, pushing forward a progressive agenda from all angles.<br />
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For the love of fuck, join SOMETHING. We're all stagnating while we argue about it, and at the end of the day, we all want the same things. Going multiple directions isn't necessarily going to result in failure, and might be the unique, forward-thinking, PROGRESSIVE approach needed to shake this broken, failing, damnable system.<br />
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Bonus Reading: <a href="http://voteforbernie.org/elections-faq/" target="_blank">A basic guide to elections from VoteForBernie.com </a><br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-52816455758839606862017-02-03T05:04:00.001-05:002017-02-03T06:00:45.903-05:00The Political Bitchslap Everyone Needs - All Parties Included<div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="7june" data-offset-key="5l4g9-0-0" style="background-color: white;">
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What the hell are we allowing to pass for "acceptable" out of our representatives and WHY? Are you THAT sad and pathetic that you're going to be content in sighing, shrugging your shoulders, down-talking others who are suffering in a crippled economy JUST LIKE YOU ARE, and assuming there's nothing to do about it?</span></span></div>
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Stop believing this horseshit that business-like decorum and understatement to the point of silence is good for us, helpful, or a mark of success. People who are representing us in government BETTER be fucking angry and ready to call out bullshit as it comes up, or they are literally nothing but well-dressed mouthpieces for those who want to profit off OUR suffering and need. Those people will NEVER help the rest of us get what we need, because they make far too much money on keeping it from us and giving us empty statements to lead us along. They will throw you a crumb from the big fat cookie that a corporation paid them, and then tell you that its the people suffering NEXT to you who ate the cookie you didn't get. Too many of us are willing to be complicit little assholes and blame that person suffering beside us, while that suited mouthpiece mumbles some more bullshit through his or her cookie-filled mouth.</span></span></div>
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Own up to it, for fucks sake, or we're all fucking doomed. Own up to how much time you've spent asleep.</span></span></div>
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Spare me your liberal or conservative sense of moral superiority to others. Shut the fuck up with your constant excuse making that those who are less well-off than you are living like shit because they're not up to your personal ethical standards. Your "moral superiority" doesn't mean jack shit to poverty-stricken children, and if you truly believe it's fine to shrug that off, YOU are probably the strongest arm of the of the many forces that are pushing those children away from good lives. YOU are a willing accomplice to suffering and further deterioration of the American quality of life. YOU are the voter who doesn't want to fucking bother. YOUR apathy is affording the rape and pillage of our nation's culture and well-being and you should be ashamed of yourself.</span></span></div>
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If your state representatives are sidestepping the point in endless, useless niceties and word salad, vote the them fuck out. Vote them the fuck out at the local, regional, state, and national level. What we thought were good, balanced, savvy politicians have FUCKED us for personal gain and cushy careers in well-paid jobs they barely show up for, while reaping work-offered healthcare, retirement, and sick pay benefits we are also paying for and will never see anything remotely as good offered to us as citizens. What's worse, is that we all truly understand that political figures are, as a rule, full of shit. It's a standard at this point.</span></span></div>
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Why do we keep voting for them?</span></span></div>
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If you were too damn cozy in being an uppity ass Democrat to see that it wasn't going to save you, shame on you. </span></span></div>
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Democrats have been dicking off, totally high on a sense of their own intellectual superiority, to the point that they don't even investigate who's paying their party members and how that could fuck people over. Your supreme Democratic intellect is used against you just as easily as religion is used as a tool to incite conservatives, and you can't sit here and pretend you give a singular rat's ass about the suffering of others if you can't even listen to them speak because they don't meet your personal standards. Poor, uneducated people that aren't as "worldly" as you deserve a living wage and health care as much as your comfortably numb, blue-voting ass does. To think otherwise is to be a bigot. If you think this way, accept that you are a bigot and if you truly believe that bigotry is bad, sort your fucking life out, mate.</span></span></div>
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If you let your religious preference be pandered to and thought that was just great, shame on you, too. </span></span></div>
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Republicans have been far too content to put blame their neighbors and in allowing the vanity of having their "personal relationship" with Jesus stroked as hard as any Democratic ego, to the point that no one's acting in any sort of "Christian" manner. Religion, which should be sacred, personal, and a means of self-improvement as a human being, has been made into a freaking circus side-show via which you're sold shoddy garbage, snake oil, and a ringside seat to your own destruction. Guess what? Your Republican representatives don't give a fuck about you or Jesus. Your preoccupation with Jesus just makes you a great big fucking propaganda target and you're letting it happen because you're a chicken shit who wants to be pandered to. Jesus would want the sick healed and for children to eat, from all I've read about the guy. If your representatives aren't putting that first, how the hell are you going to keep allowing them to align themselves with your savior? How are you not OUTRAGED by such blasphemy? You, as well as uppity Democrats who don't care about starving kids from out of work miners in West Virginia (cause fuck those red state people), should be entirely ashamed of yourselves. For people who want to work in the image of their savior to promote family values, you're awfully goddamn okay with little children and new mothers living in abject poverty and suffering. Just because a guy says "I'm all about Jesus" while he pulls the rug out from under families, doesn't mean he's your friend. Wake the fuck UP.</span></span></div>
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Oh, and independents? Fuck you, too. You're not helping. </span></span></div>
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You're leaning either right or left in most cases, fanning the flames of anger, and not doing jack shit to help put out the fire. You're decrying the moral decay of politics as you contribute to it on the citizen level, perfectly content to naysay and complain while everyone (including you) is suffering. What party do you belong to? I FORGOT. YOU'RE AN INDEPENDENT SO FUCK EVERYONE AND THEIR PARTY. You're too GOOD for working within the shit-stained political system, even toward the ends of changing and cleaning it up. What mass are you gathering to effect change? OH THAT'S RIGHT. YOU'RE NOT. You're sharing memes about how fucked up everyone else's party is, while you sit cozily in your little bubble, morally superior to us all because you don't see any reason you should have to pick either, corrupt side. The most ambitious among you are still doing nothing but forming utterly doomed little parties with no might behind them, cause most of you have nothing but disdain for every other party (major or minor) that isn't YOUR specific little horseshit party. </span></span></div>
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Anyone still got a case of the red-ass from 2016? I know I do. We tried all of the above bullshit for this past election, and we're sitting here with a failed Democratic candidate who didn't give enough fucks about her supporters to so much as pretend to care about the issues that most strongly affect them, nor support them when her opponent won. As a result, we are left with a volatile, moody, uninformed jackass for a Republican president, who's as ready to throw everyone under the bus as he is to throw a temper tantrum. The Democrats are too busy feeling sorry for themselves to even acknowledge the obvious progressive route they need to adopt to succeed, and the Republicans are working around the clock to hasten our demise. </span></span></div>
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We're all fucked and EVERYONE has allowed the worsening quality of American life to happen, to some degree or another. I don't blame anyone for voting any way they voted in 2016, because we were fucked either way. If you're not pissed off at how the primaries played out on EITHER side of the aisle, you haven't learned jack shit and you should review and reflect so that this shit doesn't happen again. Give yourself two or three smacks to your own, smug, stupid, self-satisfied face while you're at it.</span></span></div>
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You smug fucking Democrats didn't see anything wrong with superdelegates being allowed to choose the winner of the primary in advance of running one, and you should be slapped soundly for thinking that was anything other than corruption, cronyism, and an OBSCENE waste of money to even run a primary in that case. For fucks' sake, just the waste of MONEY alone should make us all furious that the Democrats tilted their primary in one direction, let alone the utter disrespect for all ethics in pretending that the people who support their party had any say in the outcome. </span></span></div>
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Republicans - since when the fuck was it a "family value" to encourage and cheer on an egomanical bully and praise him for being one? How is the concept of blaming others for your own problems (immigrants, etc) a "pulling oneself up by ones' own bootstraps" mindset? </span></span></div>
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Independents? You guys suck, too. If you wanted Bernie or Hillary or who the fuck ever, you should have gotten off your uppity asses and made yourself part of the process.</span></span></div>
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Kudos to all of you who DID try, and tried your fucking hearts out. I know that's why you're so battle-worn and bitter now. I don't blame you. I am just as hurt and angry as you are. You're going to have to drop it, though. We need to keep swimming or we're all going to drown in the aftermath of the 2016 election. Take all that you learned about election laws and rules in your state, dust yourself the fuck off, and get your pissed off asses to work well in advance of 2020, while we have a chance to do something about it.</span></span></div>
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<b>TRUTH BOMB</b>: sitting around in echo chambers, indulging in "Anti-Trump" OR "Anti-Clinton" circle jerks with each other all day isn't making you guys a movement. It's making your "movement" into a sad pile of angry little bitches who are only going to be angrier when this shit happens again and again. You ARE entirely complicit in the repetition of the 2016 political disaster if all you can do is conduct constant purity tests among one another and repeat things you already know, over and over again. </span></span></div>
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<b>BONUS TRUTH BOMB</b>: Everyone's getting fucking sick of your bellyaching, including those among you. We all know its getting us nowhere. It's time to shut the fuck up and move.</span></span><br />
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The sad fact of the matter is that we shouldn't have been so short-sighted, lazy, and apathetic as to allow the kind of choices we were left with at the end. Maybe we're used to it - all the corruption and game-playing to make a few people some cozy lives at the expense of making ours more miserable. Maybe it crept up on us, incrementally. Whatever the case, if we don't pull our collective heads out of our collective asses and DO something radically different from this point, we're even more fucked in the future than we are now.</span></span></div>
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.. and we're pretty fucked right now, y'all.</span></span></div>
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Don't sit on your fat, lazy, closed-minded, uneducated voter ass AGAIN and let the damn parties tell you who you're voting for. Get your shit together. Slap yourself in the face and say "I will not be made a bitch of, AGAIN." </span></span></div>
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Learn when primary dates are. PICK the goddamn delegates, reps, assemblymen, mayors, governors, state house reps, whatever, this time instead of letting the same fat fucks keep the same damn jobs, unopposed, that they've been sitting comfortably in for years. They don't worry about THEIR kids making it through school, and they're damn sure not sending them to school with YOUR kids. They're not worried about dying from a treatable illness. They don't have to. You're paying with your taxes to place them in positions of power and privilege, and you're also paying for your own family to wither away while these representatives you're supporting live fabulous lives on your dime.</span></span></div>
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"But I don't like the Democratic party"
"Fuck the Dems, they're too corrupt"
"Fuck the two party system!"
"WE NEED A THIRD PARTY! I'll INVENT ONE AND YOU SHOULD ALL JOIN IT"</span></span></div>
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Well guess what, kids? The two-party system has all of us by the short and curlies and there isn't a goddamn thing any of your whining, foot-stamping, or going home with your panties in a fucking wad is going to do about it unless you're willing to get your hands (and soul) a little dirty and start getting in the right place to be plucking the con-artists out of these parties. That means you're going to have to be able to belong to them in order to have a vote. </span></span></div>
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If you think you lean more left - well guess what that means, sweetheart? I think you know the answer to that. Same goes for if you lean right. I don't care what you join. I don't care if you go Green or independent, but if you do, please stop bellyaching to the rest of us about your moral superiority when your effort inevitably fails because of a lack of numbers, electoral access, and the zombie-like mass of party loyalist voters who will always vote for whoever Team Blue or Red picks for them.</span></span></div>
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We can't fix stupid. We can't fix lazy. We can't make people want to think or grow a spine and enforce change. They'll just suffer on and whine and cry and do the same goddamn thing they always do - vote in larger elections where all the movers and shakers have already been picked for them, and then actually feel like they fucking did something by merely showing the fuck up and voting. We can't fix everyone and snap them out of the political apathy that is prevalent in our depressed society. Making fun of them isn't fixing shit, either. </span></span></div>
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If you genuinely want to effect change, stop being a fucking crybaby and get in there and demand it. Get your equally woke buddies to do the same. GO TO WAR with the two parties who have the power and run for offices held by corporatist salesman who DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THE PEOPLE THEY REPRESENT. If they don't give a fuck about us, we need to actively mount a hostile takeover and throw them the hell out of those seats.</span></span></div>
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Stop with this pointless repetition of cursing out the parties, or pretending that the two parties are evil incarnate by their very names. That's pathetically superstitious and ignorant. The parties are the structures that have the power. There is every reason for them to strangle out independents and third parties, and no reason whatsoever for them to give up a single inch of the power they possess. Teams Red AND Blue will maintain this stranglehold if we don't get very hostile, very direct, and take that power for ourselves.</span></span></div>
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WHY THE FUCK DO YOU THINK BERNIE SANDERS DIDN'T WASTE HIS AND HIS FOLLOWERS PRECIOUS TIME BY GOING OUT TO FAIL MARVELOUSLY AS A HOPELESS INDEPENDENT? </span></span></div>
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Is Bernie being a little bitch? </span></span></div>
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Fuck no, he isn't. He's out there working himself sick trying to represent you.</span></span></div>
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If you're not supporting that effort, then YOU are being a little bitch. Not Bernie.</span></span></div>
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Stop being a little bitch. Start being a fucking warrior.</span></span></div>
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These two parties are not going to be overtaken by a bunch of protesting, angry goddamn hippies and weeping millenials (not that we all don't have a lot of shit to rightfully, angrily weep and protest over). They are two, ready-to-use power structures. NOTHING MORE. The people IN those power structures are abusing them for their own ends.</span></span></div>
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I think the solution to that is pretty obvious. </span></span></div>
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Get rid of those people.</span></span></div>
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Stop being a pussy and stand up to them. Put them out. Put new people in. Take that house over for the people. Don't sit here and wave your typing-fist at me and do nothing but complain. You're as much a part of the problem as the blind party loyalists you rail on endlessly about. </span></span></div>
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"But what of experience and time served in politics? Won't putting new people in with less experience hurt us?"</span></span></div>
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I don't know. What are "experienced" politicians doing for any of us right now?</span></span></div>
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I'll wait.</span></span>
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The Feminine Context</span></a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-68124171711729945922013-11-25T17:00:00.000-05:002013-11-25T13:13:47.989-05:00E-tarded: A Night to De-Member*This post has undergone a much-needed edit and is being published again to better clarify my intentions<br />
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Okay, guys. <br />
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WTF?<br />
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I just got off the phone with a female friend of mine. Our conversation was about your penis.<br />
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Yes, yes it was.<br />
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Before she called me, she had been happily chatting with YOU. She was a little excited, thinking that you were attractive and fun, and that it seemed like things were moving along nicely toward the point that she could find herself comfortable enough to consider pulling out her best moves in the sexual encounter that she could now picture herself engaging in with you. She was starting to think about having sex with you, because you had made it to her intellectual second base and now she was picturing you naked. Oh, how close you came, buddy.<br />
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But you blew it. You blew it big time.<br />
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You did something so horrendously inappropriate that she felt compelled to call me and ask me just what in the hell she should do now. <br />
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Guys, honestly... This is a problem. You can't just whip it out. I don't understand why, but there is obviously a lot of confusion about this issue. Let's just try to clear it up now, okay?<br />
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You can't do it in public. If you do, you're legally considered a sexual predator and can be arrested for it. It is considered unsolicited sexual behavior, etc...<br />
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But let's just break it down, alright? <br />
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It's just not polite to point. It's REALLY impolite to point at certain areas of a person's body, and that appendage of yours has a pretty accurate guidance system. Besides which, women kind of put phalluses in the same threat category as vampires in that they aren't supposed to comfortably move about in daylight, religious symbolism is supposed to AT LEAST slow them down, and they can't come in unless they're invited. Start operating outside of those standards, and you do to the dating game what <em>28 Days Later</em> did to zombies; you now have something inflamed and enraged that you can't even outrun, AND IT'S NOT SUPPOSED TO FREAKIN' WORK THAT WAY. <br />
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Unless we specifically get freaky and ASK you for a picture of your member, sending it to us will upset us on a number of levels. It may surprise you to learn that what often upsets us the most is the massive responsibility that you've thoughtlessly heaved onto the unsuspecting woman who's now in a staring match with Mr. Cyclops. <br />
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Pray tell, O man, what is the response that you're expecting?<br />
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Try to think with the big head for just a second. Okay, good.. now that the blood is flowing back into the area of your body that is (supposedly) where your seat of empathy lies, try to put yourself in the sweaty pumps of your potential partner. What in the FUCK is she supposed to say when you abruptly STOP talking and start just hanging out the one part of your body that you are the most emotionally fragile about? It is, at once, both the most disrespectful shortcut to her girlie parts that you could possibly take, and the greatest self-inflicted punishment a man could dream up, and you've left the determination between those two extremes solely at the discretion of the stunned woman who didn't plan on talking to your dick today.<br />
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If you're sadist or a masochist, or you're looking for a sadist or a masochist, then MAYBE this could be a really quick way of getting through a singles event. Even then, its kind of a dick move (pardon the pun).<br />
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Again, I implore you to look at this from our perspective. Prematurely exposing your most private of parts is interpreted by a woman as a "put out or get out" alert, and it usually comes at time that she's just getting a tingle of sexual attraction to you. You've as good as told her that you're not interested in getting to know her anymore and you're not wasting another breath talking to her unless she takes a good look at your dick and says "yeah, I'll just hop right on that". Most women will not declare themselves ready for boarding just at the sight of dick, and if they do, there is something wrong with her. Either she's got boundary issues that will manifest themselves into various degrees of psychosis in the near future, or she's got <em>other</em> souvenirs to give you that you're not going to want cluttering up your travel-bags later on.<br />
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In order to make it clear that she is NOT a slut or anything like what I described in the previous paragraph, she cannot be too positive in whatever she says about the unexpected penis before her. She ALSO knows that if she says anything negative, it could end the relationship then and there when you shrink up like a scared turtle. More than that, given the extreme sensitivity that men exhibit at ANY and EVERYTHING related to their penises, she's not sure if you're going to come away from this with a permanent wound that she didn't mean to inflict.<br />
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How is this fair, man? You guys flip out about your independence and freedom when we ask why you didn't call, as though we were trying to shove a GPS tracking device in your anus. We're usually asking because you usually call. When you didn't, we were probably concerned for a variety of reasons, not the least of which include "Oh shit, is he dead? This guy texts me fifteen times a day and today I haven't heard from him in ten hours". Goddamn.. how dare we forget to read your mind and understand that THIS is the day you were going to pretend that you're Rambo and you're going into the bush (haaa..) for two weeks and can't be contacted til all the bad guys are little smouldering bloody piles in the jungle.<br />
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See, in one situation, we're expected to extricate ourselves with all the precision of a neurosurgeon, carefully avoiding any damage to the highly sensitive areas that we now can't HELP but be in direct contact with. In the other, if we show the slightest bit of concern when a situation moves from "status: normal" to "WTF", we're treated like soul-sucking harpies, hell-bent on emasculating you by demanding that you show us common courtesy. <br />
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This sexual faux-pas seems to happen more often than ever, what with the ready availability of camera phones. Before everyone had cameras in their phones, there were digital cameras and chatrooms. I had a few girlfriends that used to hang out in the same online social areas that I did, and between us, we had pictures of almost every guy who frequented that same area. We went so far as to play "Guess That Screenname!", trying to match the dick to the dickhead who sent it. This is not as cold and cruel a practice as you guys might think. This was us, making the best out of an awkward and uncomfortable situation. We felt lucky to have each other, because at least we had someone to bounce a sample response off of whenever cock would invariably show up in our inboxes, with little to no warning of its arrival.<br />
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Which leaves me where I am today. Having gone through an entire conversation that revolved around:<br />
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1: Not hurting a guy's feelings<br />
2: Not being a slut<br />
3: Preserving that guy's chance at ACTUALLY GETTING SOME<br />
4: Trying to appropriately handle an extremely inappropriate situation <br />
5: Justifying the continuation of a heterosexual lifestyle, despite godawful problems like this that come with it.<br />
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Oh, and we did talk about length, girth, color, angle, and all of the other shit you're probably worrying about. This was mainly a way to diffuse the discomfort of the situation that this girl had found herself in. Trust me when I say this... unless you've got a serious case of micropenis or there were visible surface abnormalities, we didn't judge you by any of those penile stats that I mentioned.<br />
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We DID, however, judge you for sending it to her. That's strike one, provided you haven't done anything even dumber before this. If you're smart, you'll apologize.<br />
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Here are some <strong>GOOD</strong> and <strong>BAD</strong> ways to try and recover from exposing yourself like the quintessential pervert with a trenchcoat:<br />
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<strong>-GOOD-</strong><br />
"I'm sorry. That was really impulsive of me. I'm just so turned on by you that I did it without thinking. I hope we can move on from this really out-there thing that I did"<br />
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<strong>-BAD-</strong><br />
"Now how's about some <em>quid pro quo</em>, baby?"<br />
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<strong>-GOOD-</strong><br />
"I'm really feeling kind of shy and embarrassed about sending that pic. I want to ask you what you think about it, but it wasn't cool of me to put you on the spot like that"<br />
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<strong>-BAD-</strong><br />
"Can we fuck now?"<br />
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<strong>-GOOD-</strong><br />
"Ok, ok... my bad. You don't have to say ANYTHING. Let's let it go, and you will see it in person if and when you WANT to see it. I did something that was very inconsiderate of you and I'm sorry. I just got excited and was being an idiot"<br />
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<strong>-BAD-</strong><br />
"No, seriously. I need to see a picture of your vagina RIGHT NOW. Unless I can get delivery in 30 minutes or less? Plz?"<br />
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In short (and if you're gonna send us a picture of it, you better pray that it ISN'T), COULD YOU PLEASE STOP SENDING US UNSOLICITED DICK PICS?<br />
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Thank you. This Public Service Rant has been provided to the general public courtesy of thefemininecontext.blogspot.com, on behalf of MILLIONS OF CREEPED OUT WOMEN WHO MIGHT OTHERWISE HAVE BLOWN YOU... had you not blown it for yourself.<br />
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*Bear in mind before you go all OMFG SHE IS SLUT-SHAMING AND OMFG THE RAPE-CULTURE/PATRIARCHAL WRONGNESS.. Trust me, I know. In fact, I completely agree. Unfortunately, all the "wrong" things said here are common things that women think having been indoctrinated by the patriarchal and archaic rape-culture we've been brought up in. This entire post is basically derived from many, many conversations I've had with other women about this subject, including the commonalities between all of those conversations (i.e.; "I can't look like a slut. Was I being slutty? I like him so now what do I do?"). So to clarify a point or two..</div>
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- <b style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: inherit;">Slut-shaming is wrong</b>. Internalizing it to the point that you'll participate in your own victim-blaming is really messed up. Tragically, one of the first things a woman does when placed in a sexually-charged, undesirable, unwanted situation like this is to check HERSELF for anything she did to deserve what has befallen her. Maybe we need less red, embarrassed female faces and more drinks being thrown into lascivious, expectant asshole man-faces that are awaiting a response.</div>
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- Having to tiptoe around an ugly-ass situation that someone ELSE created in an effort to spare that aggressors' feelings is REALLY wrong, and is holding the victim responsible for what the aggressor has foisted upon her. Even worse, this happens to women and girls every day. As a culture, we have so internalized the idea that women bear all sexual responsibility, they often go straight to work trying to salvage a situation that they should remove themselves from (dating a disrespectful prick, for example), and should never have been exposed to (pardon the contextual pun) to begin with.</div>
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- <b style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: inherit;">Exposing oneself in person is a crime, punishable by law</b> (that is, if you can convince the law you're not a slut who asked for it, which is fucked up). Just because you put Mr. Willy in a digital format instead of actively whipping it out and trying to touch her with it, AND can legally get away with it, doesn't make it any less unwarranted, unwanted, or inappropriate. Keep it in your pants, and by "it", I mean the collective "it" which includes your genitals and the phone or device that contains any pics taken of your genitals.</div>
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- I'm sick to death of having conversations with my friends about how best they must navigate the obstacle course of disgusting behaviors they endure out of the obtuse neanderthals they are dating. Here's something worth considering. A logical breakdown.</div>
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Following the logic that women have to obsess over every last thing they say, do, wear, etc, because of the commonly accepted idea that men cannot conduct themselves in safe, non-violent, socially acceptable manner when exposed to sexual stimuli in any amount, the idea of locking them up in cages most of the time would be both LOGICAL and SOUND in the interest of protecting women and children. </div>
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If men are so driven by sexual impulse that cannot be trusted to not sexually assault, rape, or become violent/aggressive/unstable when a woman is present, the responsibility falling on the woman/potential victim, I'm guessing we should lock them up like we do anyone else who we (as a society) determine are so likely to harm others if they are free to roam.</div>
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I don't want to lock the entire heteronormative male gender in a cage. Maybe it might be a better idea for them to grow the fuck up and start learning to tell themselves, and their penises, "no". That's what human beings are supposed to do when childhood is over and their parents aren't there to tell them "no".</div>
The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-8399131956713273242013-11-15T15:22:00.000-05:002013-11-15T15:22:39.114-05:00Why Men Call Women "Crazy" - Turns Out That It's Total Bullshit Like We Thought It Was<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/harris-oamalley/on-labeling-women-crazy_b_4259779.html" target="_blank">From "On Labeling Women 'Crazy'" by Harris O'Malley on HuffPost:</a><br />
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<i>"Back in the bad old days, I was notoriously self-absorbed. It wasn't that I thought that I was the greatest thing ever, it was just that I didn't really stop to spare too many thoughts for others. I was willing to make an effort for others, but only so far as it didn't really inconvenience me past a "reasonable" point. I didn't want to have long drawn out conversations about how my behavior made my girlfriend feel and I certainly didn't want to get dragged into what I saw as unnecessary drama. In fact, I was incredibly drama-averse, thanks to an early unhealthy relationship.</i><br />
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<i>As a result... well, I wasn't willing to consider how others were feeling. When the woman I was dating would try to explain to me how the way I treated her felt, I would tell her that she was seeing things. She was overreacting to inconsequential stuff. She was being over-sensitive, reading things into what I was saying or doing that just weren't there.</i><br />
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<i>The subtext to everything I was saying was simple: "You are behaving in a way that I find inconvenient, and I want to you to stop." I wasn't willing to engage with her emotionally and address her very real concerns because I was too wrapped up in my own shit to think about other people. As a result, I would minimize her issues. By telling her that she was reading too much into things, I was framing the situation as her being irrational.</i><br />
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<i>I didn't realize it at the time, but what I was doing was, in effect, telling her that she didn't have the right to feel the way she felt... because I didn't want her to feel that way."</i><br />
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I would love to see more of this kind of thought process from men. The patriarchal status quo ain't helpin THEM out either, making them all out to be emotionally-challenged, overgrown children who are incapable of interacting with others without gratuity. That's not healthy for anyone, and its not true. Following the societal norms of traditional gender roles to the letter; fearful, skeptical, and cynical of any deviation, does nothing more than entrap us in unhappy lifestyles and a dangerous, violent culture.<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-10091257786148608932013-11-14T16:32:00.001-05:002013-11-14T16:32:31.633-05:00I HAVE RAGING SHE-WOOD for Lily Allen - It's Hard Out Here for a Bitch<a href="http://www.lilyallenmusic.com/" target="_blank">Lily Allen</a>, I love you.<br />
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First thing she says in opening scene...<br />
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"I had two babies.."<br />
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FOR FUCKS SAKE YES.<br />
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Tell me when the march starts, bitch, cause I'm comin' with.<br />
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E0CazRHB0so" target="_blank">DIRECT LINK HERE - ANTHEM WORTHY- HARD OUT HERE FOR A BITCH</a><br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-48456263611211722322013-10-18T16:49:00.000-04:002013-10-18T16:49:40.581-04:00This Week In Ignorant Fucks - 10/18/2013Aw, goddamnit.... where do I start?<br />
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There was so much fucking stupid floating about the news this week, my head hurts just trying to round it all up.<br />
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We've had the ultimate in toddler-style temper tantrums going on with the government shutdown, in which Republicans simply can't get over the fact that they didn't get their way, so they responded by taking their toys (and continued pay) and going HOME. Never mind the fact that they took lots of other people's toys and paychecks home with them while they act like fucking jerks.<br />
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Because of the efforts of (my heroes!) <a href="https://twitter.com/YourAnonNews" target="_blank">Anonymous</a>, information has come out about the Maryville teen rape, terrifyingly similar to Steubenville in its cover-up and dehumanization of the victims. Thank you, Anonymous, perhaps the only justice for women now comes at the hands of "vigilantes". As an open cry to Anonymous, please tell me here if there's anything I can ever do to help. Thank you for caring about young lives that our tragically dysfunctional social climate would allow to be cast aside as easily as garbage.<br />
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Let me try to lay out some links to some of the better examples of idiocy for this past week.. in no particular order..<br />
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Fox News pulls out the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_DiBenedetto" target="_blank">sleaziest fucking criminal defense lawyer</a> they can possibly find, and airs a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxQnBR8OO_U" target="_blank">textbook example of victim blaming</a> with great enthusiasm.<br />
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Did I fail to mention that this guy's main areas of expertise are in defending mafioso AND "white collar criminals" who are charged with multi-million dollar fraud?<br />
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Clearly, Fox News was trying to put their best foot forward after the victim-blaming, slut-shaming, rape-culture inducing misogyny market was cornered earlier in the week by a WOMAN. <a href="http://www.slate.com/" target="_blank">Slate</a>'s <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=emily+yoffe&oq=emily+yoff&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0l5.5372j0j4&sourceid=chrome&espv=210&es_sm=122&ie=UTF-8" target="_blank">Emily Yoffe</a>, more commonly known as "<a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence.html" target="_blank">Dear Prudence</a>", heaped rape prevention back onto women with her one-and-a-half cents on the Maryville rape. Her choice of words was questionable, at best, starting with the pretty blatant title of <a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/10/sexual_assault_and_drinking_teach_women_the_connection.html" target="_blank">"<b>COLLEGE WOMEN:STOP GETTING DRUNK</b>.</a>" Ms. Yoffe is actually <a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/18/rape_culture_and_binge_drinking_emily_yoffe_responds_to_her_critics.html" target="_blank">defending her article</a>, clearly convinced that we're all too stupid to understand that alcohol CAN be a factor in some rape situations, but obviously MISSING THE POINT ENTIRELY that the ghost of Jack Daniels doesn't come out of the bottle, angry erection in hand, and rape you himself at a certain point of female drunkenness. That, in fact, it's the man who thinks so little of you as a human being and so highly of you as a sexual opportunity who takes advantage of the fact that he CAN rape you, secure in the knowledge that some smug old bitch like Emily Yoffe <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/charles-clymer/emily-yoffe-joins-dont-drink_b_4113933.html" target="_blank">will wag her know-it-all, admonishing finger</a> at the victim afterward. Ms. Yoffe also has some weirdo idea in her head that what's actually causing all these rapes is that women think they are being all feminist by matching guys drink for drink. No, seriously. Like, as in, for real.. she SAID that.. here. From the post..<br />
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<i>"<span style="background-color: white; color: #281b21; font-family: sl-ApresRegular; font-size: 15px; line-height: 27px;">Let’s be totally clear: Perpetrators are the ones responsible for committing their crimes, and they should be brought to justice. But we are failing to let women know that when they render themselves defenseless, terrible things can be done to them. Young women are getting a distorted message that their right to match men drink for drink is a feminist issue. The real feminist message should be that when you lose the ability to be responsible for yourself, you drastically increase the chances that you will attract the kinds of people who, shall we say, don’t have your best interest at heart. That’s not blaming the victim; that’s trying to prevent more victims."</span></i><br />
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What really sucks here is that the above paragraph is pretty much the only part of her piece that does, in fact, discuss how the perpetrators are responsible for their actions. At best, this is another disgusting, stomach-turning example of an educated, professional, adult woman who has been so indoctrinated with social sexism that she actually BELIEVES this is a progressive, proactive approach to the rape culture crisis we are all suffering from. I hate to break it to you, lady, but we all know that the world is dangerous. What all of us militant feminists are raging about is that we've TRIED ALL OF THIS SHIT AND IT DOESN'T WORK. You can get raped by any man, at any time, in any social setting, no matter what the theme or central activity is. The fact that women from all walks of life and of all personality types are getting raped is terrible enough, but the aftermath might actually be worse than the attack, and guess what? Emily Yoffe, you are now part of that aftermath. A woman suffering the trauma following a rape that was NOT HER FAULT, does not need to read this tripe about what SHE was doing, wearing, or where she was. The asshole who RAPED her needs to be questioned and scrutinized and shamed. There are dangerous people EVERYWHERE. When a crime or assault is committed against a man, we don't ask him what he was doing drinking at a party (you know, where people drink), or why he was wearing a certain kind of clothing, or why he was out late at night, or hanging out without some sort of chaperoning escort to ensure his safety... oh yeah, that's right. We treat men like people. How dare us silly bitches think we deserve the same courtesy.<br />
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From "<a href="http://jezebel.com/how-to-write-about-rape-prevention-without-sounding-lik-1446529386" target="_blank">How to write a rape prevention article without sounding like an asshole</a>" by <a href="http://morninggloria.kinja.com/" target="_blank">Erin Gloria Ryan</a>, published in Jezebel, and using a direct quote from Ms. Yoffe's piece:<br />
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If Emily Yoffe had a son, she'd teach him how not to be accused of rape at a party. Not how to stay sober enough to remain vigilant and interfere with potentially alcohol-fueled rape situations, or how it's not okay to have sex with a woman who is too drunk to consent. Nope. Just how not to get accused of rape. Got it."<br />
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By the way, <a href="http://morninggloria.kinja.com/" target="_blank">Ms. Ryan</a>, if you read this somehow, please know that you make my everlovin' day, girl. I read your work all the damn time, and you're fucking awesome.<br />
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Danielle N. Lee, who has blogged for Scientific American for at least two years and refers to herself as the "Urban Scientist" was asked by a content editor for Biology-Online.com if she would write for them, when she asked about compensation, she was called a whore. What the fuck, right? <a href="http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/urban-scientist/2013/10/11/give-trouble-to-others-but-not-me/" target="_blank">Her blog post on this matter, including screenshots of emails, can be found here.</a><br />
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Ted Cruz - SHUT THE FUCK UP. Oh my God, you're a moron.<br />
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<a href="http://swampland.time.com/2013/10/18/ted-cruz-failed-to-disclose-ties-to-jamaican-holding-company/" target="_blank">Ted Cruz fails to disclose financial ties to Jamaican Holdings company- TIME</a><br />
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Ted, Jamaican me crazy, here..<br />
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<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=Chris+Van+Hollen&oq=Chris+Van+Hollen&aqs=chrome..69i57&sourceid=chrome&espv=210&es_sm=122&ie=UTF-8" target="_blank">Chris VanHollen</a>, representing the 8th district of the State of Maryland in the U.S. House of Representatives and also writing for <a href="http://theguardian.com/">TheGuardian.com</a>, brought this lovely little gem to light in his article <a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/oct/16/republican-rulerigging-shutdown-subverted-democracy?CMP=twt_gu" target="_blank">"Republican Rule-Rigging Cause This Shutdown and Subverted Democracy"</a>. Here is an excerpt from that piece:<br />
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<i>"There are enough votes in the House to pass the Senate's "clean" bill to fund government – and this already represents Democrats being willing to compromise to accept the GOP's post-sequester funding levels for the short term. It would have easily passed the House with a bipartisan majority – had the House Republican leadership brought it to the floor for a simple up-or-down vote. But House Republicans – many of whom have long had the goal of shutting down the government – effectively wrote the shutdown into law with just hours left on the clock.</i><br />
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<i>The chairman of the House rules committee conceded that, under normal procedure with clause 4 of rule 22, if the House amends a Senate bill and the Senate rejects the House's amendment(s), any House member has the right to bring the original Senate bill up for an immediate up-or-down vote in the House. But just two hours before the government was poised to shut down, House Republicans quietly rigged the rules in their favor. They changed that rule to ensure that only Republican majority leader Eric Cantor could bring the Senate bill to reopen the government up for a vote – something they have refused to do."</i><br />
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<i>"What's it gonna take to get these queers to realize they don't need a piece of paper. God will not bless their union because he plainly speaks against queers in the Bible. Want to cover your queer with insurance? Buy a policy. Want your queer to get your stuff when you die? Make a will."</i><br />
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You IGNORANT bitch, Ms. Oliver. I hope there is, in fact, a Rapture. I can't wait til it takes you, and people like you, the hell off the planet.<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-86324481744471170542013-10-05T16:14:00.000-04:002013-10-05T16:14:13.195-04:00Republican Extremists Must Have Orgasms Every Time They Lie About The Affordable Care Act<a href="http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2013/oct/04/facebook-posts/closer-look-facebook-post-mans-struggle-obamacare-/" target="_blank">PolitiFact PWNS even more fucktards</a> trying to spread misinformation and outright lies to terrify people about the Affordable Care Act.<br />
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YOUR TEAM LOST.. OMG, FUCKING DEAL WITH IT..<br />
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"<i>The Facebook post claims to be from a man named Will Sheehan. (We couldn’t confirm his identity.) The post says that he tried to sign up for Obamacare and then decided to not go along with it; he then said he received an email detailing fines he would face. </i><br />
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<i>"I actually made it through this morning at 8:00 A.M. I have a preexisting condition (Type 1 Diabetes) and my income base was 45K-55K annually I chose tier 2 ‘Silver Plan’ and my monthly premiums came out to $597.00 with $13,988 yearly deductible!!! There is NO POSSIBLE way that I can afford this so I ‘opt-out’ and chose to continue along with no insurance. I received an email tonight at 5:00 P.M. informing me that my fine would be $4,037 and could be attached to my yearly income tax return. Then you make it to the ‘REPERCUSSIONS PORTION’ for ‘non-payment’ of yearly fine. First, your drivers license will be suspended until paid, and if you go 24 consecutive months with ‘Non-Payment’ and you happen to be a home owner, you will have a federal tax lien placed on your home. You can agree to give your bank information so that they can easy ‘Automatically withdraw’ your ‘penalties’ weekly, bi-weekly or monthly! This by no means is ‘Free’ or even ‘Affordable’</i>."<br />
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<i>We will check a number of the post’s claims below.</i>"<br />
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<a href="http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2013/oct/04/facebook-posts/closer-look-facebook-post-mans-struggle-obamacare-/" target="_blank">Please take a look at this post by clicking here.</a><br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-8764200910915805712013-10-04T00:33:00.000-04:002013-10-04T00:33:18.348-04:00Three Of The BEST (so far) "Blurred Lines" Parody VideosI won't even dignify this dudebro-anthem with a link to the original song. If you somehow haven't heard it or seen the obnoxious video for Robin Thicke's "Blurred Lines", well.. fuck, you might have lucked out. While watching the following, just know that it went a LOT like these, only these videos are a lot more honest about what's going on in this highly criticized "date rape is okay" dance track.<br />
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Lemme tell ya, people... there are a shitload of DAMN GOOD parodies on this song. It's actually kind of hard to choose.<br />
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I would be remiss if I didn't place the sparkling gem <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tC1XtnLRLPM" target="_blank">"Defined Lines"</a> by the FUCKING FANTASTIC <a href="http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuH6_jOGO_45Reu3iQEO-6Q" target="_blank">"Law Revue"</a>. I am following their tweets and you should <a href="https://twitter.com/LawRevueGirls" target="_blank">visit them @LawRevueGirls</a> and do the same. Thank you, Law Revue. You are amazing, talented, and RIGHT ON TRACK.<br />
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I simply had to throw <a href="http://youtu.be/J3twwafch4g" target="_blank">this one</a> out by the fabulous <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/BartBaKer?feature=watch" target="_blank">Bart Baker</a>, a true master of pop video parodies. PLEASE go visit him and give that guy a thumbs up. Thank you, Bart.. thank you for the #hashtagpolice, alone, let alone the goat!<br />
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Love this beauty from the brilliantly clever stand-up comedienne <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/MinderfulMovies?feature=watch" target="_blank">Melinda Hughes</a> with the tremendously appropriate title of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WVI9PfBzsA8" target="_blank">"Lame Lines" or "Douchebag"</a> (as the chorus would suggest), which shows up as AND rhymes with "Hashtag" (kind of).<br />
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Speaking of which, Robin Thicke should be internationally barred from ever using hashtags again, in any context, ever. For all of time.<br />
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Ms. Hughes can also be found on the ol' Twitterverse <a href="https://twitter.com/MelindaHug" target="_blank">@MelindaHug</a> and has <a href="http://www.melinda-hughes.com/" target="_blank">her own website HERE</a>.<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-88868472208796046132013-10-03T23:33:00.000-04:002013-10-05T00:20:07.988-04:00Elizabeth Warren Pulls Out Her Pimp-Hand, Rand Paul and Mitch McConnell Make Bitches Of ThemselvesEDIT - 10/04/2013 - cause whoever had the original YouTube upload for the Paul/McConnell vid BITCHED THE FUCK OUT LIKE A PUSS AND TOOK IT DOWN. Link fixed.<br />
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Goddamnit, Elizabeth Warren..<br />
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Senator Warren drops it like its hot (yeah, fuck off, it fits) on the GOP, <a href="http://youtu.be/UA3I4HAvgUs" target="_blank">lays down epic smack in the form of a bullshit-seeking missile style speech</a> on Republicans and their efforts to deny millions of Americans access to at least SOME amount of health care.<br />
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One thing that did not escape my notice was the point they make themselves in that their opposing Democrats were saying the same things in private that they were saying in public.... you know.. kind of the OPPOSITE of what the GOP is doing. Way to deliver the punchline on yourselves, you jackasses.<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-72627686793754810722013-09-29T14:50:00.001-04:002013-09-29T15:16:51.855-04:00Anita Perry Can't Stomach Uttering Total Bullshit Out Loud, Media Frenzy EnsuesI'm thinking that Rick Perry is shitting platinum bricks right about now..<br />
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OH MY GAWD.. A PROMINENT REPUBLICAN STATE FIRST LADY EXPRESSED A PERFECTLY VALID AND HUMAN VIEWPOINT ON REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS!<br />
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You can understand that women should have the right to choose what's best for them and, at once, not be all pro-abortion. To be pro-choice means that you realize that abortion is one of several choices a woman can make in the face of an unplanned pregnancy, and it IS in fact, OKAY to know that you yourself would not make that particular choice.<br />
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oh, and also <a href="http://www.wendydavisforsenate.com/" target="_blank">VOTE WENDY DAVIS FOR SENATE!!!!!!!!!!!!</a><br />
<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-74475548501126415932013-09-27T20:03:00.000-04:002013-09-27T20:03:53.441-04:00Craigslist of Ridiculous Demands: Men Seeking Women for Godawful ReasonsIf ever you are single and feeling down about it, all you need to do is pop over to Craigslist and take a good long look at who's looking for YOU..<br />
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Fo' real, bitches. Ten minutes into just scanning over a few posts in "Men Seeking Women" and I was seriously trying to figure out the logistics of getting my vagina stitched shut.<br />
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Let's look at some real winners from the <a href="http://dallas.craigslist.org/m4w/" target="_blank">Dallas</a> area...<br />
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<i>"First of all I'm in the Phoenix area, so if you are what I'm looking for, you'll also have to be willing to move here. It's a nice place actually and great weather. I'm SWM, mid 40s, professional, handsome, successful, 5'11" 185lb, non smoker, light drinker. I own a very nice home (though it could use a woman's touch) and have all kinds of fun toys. My interests include Harleys, Corvettes, Dirt Bikes, Motor Sports, Photography, Guns, Shooting, Home improvement and do it yourself projects. I'm upbeat and like to enjoy my free time as much as possible."</i></div>
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<i>"You'll need to like weekend trips to Vegas or the California coast. I'm Looking for a girlfriend and possibly future wife 18-35 with a figure, no kids and also a lady who might enjoy (or would like to) model for hot high heel, mini skirt theme photos and video. Photography is a huge interest of mine and I'd like to find a partner who enjoys modeling and is very photogenic. Do you like to play dress up and pose for photos or perform for the video camera? Is this something you've fantasized about? Would like to find a husband who encourages your exhibionist tendencies? You are my type if you do. I'll spoil MY girl rotten, hair styling, manicures, pedicures, heels, hot outfits, etc. Yes, everything it takes to make YOU my hot little Model and beautiful girlfriend or wife. Send a pic with reply. You may be just the girl I've been looking for : ) "</i></div>
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Translation: I AM TOTALLY WILLING TO PAY FOR ALL THE SHIT THAT MAKES YOU LOOK AS PLASTIC AS POSSIBLE. THAT IS PRETTY MUCH ALL I AM LOOKING FOR SINCE I HAVEN'T SUGGESTED A SINGLE PERSONALITY TRAIT THAT I AM ALSO LOOKING TO FIND.</div>
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<i>"Want huge implants as in DDD to G??? Major bonus points if you do because that's the look I want my woman to have. Yes, you need to want to be a huge boobs hottie!"</i></div>
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There better be a health plan involved, because some bitch is going to undergo early spinal failure trying to hold them things up. Oh, gentleman.. do you also plan on providing steel-reinforced breast scaffolds? Cause anyone with a waist as tiny as you seem to require is going to need some additional support keeping those boobs upright.<br />
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OH! and here's another..this guy's looking for a "country gal" who's all about breaking every cardinal rule of meeting someone over the internet..<br />
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<i>"Ok so this the deal I am white male 34 years old and I am going on vacation the week of thanksgiving to my parents cabin. Were going to cookout hunt drink beer drink wiskey what ever the night unfolds. So im looking for a country girl that would enjoy this sort of thing this event can be platonic or romantic all depends on are vibe I guess. There are seperate beds and all that so dont have to worry about sleeping together if thats something your worried about. Really just want the company and too have a good time. So taking applicants lol send me email some info on yourself and some pics. Yee Yee!!!!! (Ps some of the pics are from when we have been working on it as we speak so its work in progress lol)..."</i><br />
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Oh, sure.. why not? I'll just pack up mah country bumpkin ass, get in your truck (which I assume you have), and just hit the road on a major family holiday out to your cabin! Yee...<br />
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Oh yeah, there's this picture that opens up the ad..<br />
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<i>"Hi, are there any women on here who are at their point in life where they have not found the right person to have a family with, but time is running out for whatever reason and would like to make one now. Not in the next couple of years but rather sooner than later? I am an Asian man in the same boat and looking for someone to make a family or child together. I am not here to play games or beat around the bush. I dont care what race you are or maybe you have a kid already but must be open to having more. Please put "BABY" in the title so I know you are real and not a bot or spam. But more importantly tell me about you and send me some photos of you also, would like to see who I am talking to."</i><br />
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Love how seeing a photo of his breeding stock is a mere footnote to the whole post about impregnating her.. *shudder*<br />
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LOVE this one... real dream of a guy...<br />
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<i>"Hello and no im not looking just for sex !</i><br />
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The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-90023201831979707632013-09-26T16:23:00.000-04:002013-10-04T09:36:51.517-04:00Pink Pepper Spray: Form and Function and Really Fucked UpCouldn't help but notice this tweet from the awesome <a href="http://twitter.com/Kiskolee" target="_blank">@Kiskolee</a> yesterday and just HAD to investigate...<br />
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She's got a point, you know..<br />
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So here I went onto the trusty ol' Google image search to see what I could find for the terms <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=pink+pepper+spray&es_sm=122&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=KWxEUpeqJoulqQHbk4HgBQ&ved=0CAkQ_AUoAQ&biw=1680&bih=925&dpr=1" target="_blank">"pink pepper spray"..</a><br />
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Holy burning balls, Batman! That's a <strike>lot</strike> <i>shitload</i> of pink non-lethal self-defense items!<br />
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I thought maybe there would be a few pink-colored pepper sprays out there, but damn. As you can see (if you clicked on the link), there's an enormous variety of personal protection devices that all look like accessories for Barbie's Dream House (and Dream Car, and Dream Purse, and Dream Backpack, and Dream Laptop Case and Dream Office Desk, and Dream Hiding Place in the Dream Kitchen Cabinet, etc..).<br />
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Let's start with your basic pepper spray, which of course, comes in HOT PINK..<br />
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heh.. HOT pink. You got it, right? Cause it's PEPPER spray and its HOT...<br />
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I'm posting links directly to the places where you can buy these items, just in case you thought I was totally kidding.<br />
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<b><a href="http://www.tbotech.com/pink-pepper-spray.htm" target="_blank"><span style="background-color: black; color: magenta; font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Pink just got hotter with Hot Pink Mace Defense Spray!</span></a></b><br />
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From the website:<br />
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<i>"Even when it comes to personal protection, girls want to look good and be in fashion. Now, you don't have to settle for a bland color that doesn't match anything. Spice it up!</i><br />
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<i>Hot Pink Pepper Spray </i><br />
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<i>Fashionable 10% Mace Brand pink pepper spray"</i><br />
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You know us girls. Always wanting to look good and be fashionable. That's probably why we get raped so damn often, huh? I don't know about YOU bitches, but when I spray my attacker in the face, I want him to notice that I ACCESSORIZED before his eyes slam shut from the capsaicinoids assaulting his mucous membranes. That'll show him!<br />
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You don't want the cops to find your lifeless body and wonder why your nails and ineffective protection device DON'T MATCH! While they're busy wondering just what in the hell your silly ninny ass was doing out after dark by yourself, they might miss a doughnut or two because of your nausea-inducing lack of post-mortem fashion sense.<br />
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If that particular model will maybe make your ass look fat (HORRORS) in its slender design, perhaps you need something that offsets your greater-than-size-eight ham-hockedness! You know, like the control-top panties of pepper spraying accessories. ONE MUST ACCESSORIZE, GODDAMNIT!<br />
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<a href="http://www.mace.com/mace-pepper-spray-gel/mace-pepper-gun-pink.html" target="_blank"><span style="background-color: black; color: magenta; font-size: large;"><b>Mace Pepper Gun Distance Defense Spray with LED, Hot Pink</b></span></a><br />
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..and who says that companies aren't catering to plus-sizes?<br />
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Ye gods..<br />
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If something a little less blatant appeals to you, try this FASHIONABLE little number..<br />
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<a href="http://www.agentgearusa.com/item/97_oc_18_covert_pink_heart_lipstick_pepper_spray" target="_blank"><span style="color: magenta; font-size: large;"><b style="background-color: black;">Covert Pink Heart Lipstick Pepper Spray</b></span></a><br />
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For the lady who understands that its best that people believe you carry heart-shaped lipstick cases (as opposed to personal protection) wherever you go. It's much more <i>feminine</i> and <i>lady-like</i> to be maniacally-obssessed with one's appearance than to concern your pretty little head with defending yourself.<br />
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As much as I appreciate that the companies that make these things consider us girls so vain, vapid, and attracted to shiny, brightly colored things that even our last-ditch effort emergency life saving devices have to be "cute"... Well.. if you can make it PINK to appeal to my delicate sensibilities, why can't you bling it up a little bit to appeal to my stereotypical gold-digging whore sensibilities as well? DAMMIT, I'M A PRINCESS!<br />
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Oh shit.. I shouldn't have asked..<br />
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There's a whole lot of shit going on here, but we're gonna start with what the website says.<br />
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<a href="http://guardiangirls.com/product/black-with-pink-crystal/" style="background-color: black; color: magenta;" target="_blank"><b><span style="font-size: large;">Guardian Girls "Winged Edition: Black with Pink Crystals"</span></b></a>
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<i>"Guardian Girls Winged Edition pepper sprays are individually hand crafted and adorned with Swarovski crystals. The Winged Edition pepper spray features a custom re-usable design allowing you to insert a water cartridge for practice or a pepper spray cartridge for when you are on the go.</i><br />
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Before I go any further, I DO want to recognize the <a href="http://guardiangirls.com/our-story/" target="_blank">Guardian Girls</a>, their <a href="http://guardiangirls.com/foundation/" target="_blank">foundation</a> and their <a href="http://guardiangirls.com/blog/" target="_blank">blog</a>, and specifically its founder, <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/pub/yvonne-anderson/19/241/74a" target="_blank">Yvonne Anderson</a>. Ms. Anderson is a single mother who has firsthand experience dealing with a stalker. She chose to take the terror of that experience, turn it around and do something positive for other women. Guardian Girls' foundation helps to support a variety of charity organizations that improve the lives of women and their families and should be commended. Guardian Girls are able to support their good works for women via the sale of items like these, so I'm happy to give a link and shout-out to them. The thing is, its not Ms. Anderson or her organization that I take issue with.. its the market in which they have to compete and the social climate that breeds the market.
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Personally, I find it horrific that we're literally trying "doll-up" these things we really shouldn't HAVE to be carrying just because we're women and we are expected to be ornamental at all times, apparently even in moments of extreme peril. We are so very conditioned to being adorned, accessorized, and fashionable that we're even seeking to make a WEAPON "girly" and "fun". With all due respect to Guardian Girls, the practice of Barbie-fying literally every product aimed at female consumers isn't merely sexist, but it contributes to the overall infantilization of women in society.<br />
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Just in case you think I'm overreaching here, <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=infantilizing&oq=infantilizing&aqs=chrome..69i57&sourceid=chrome&espvd=210&ie=UTF-8" target="_blank">THIS</a> is what Google gave me as a definition for the word <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=infantilizing&oq=infantilizing&aqs=chrome..69i57&sourceid=chrome&espvd=210&ie=UTF-8" target="_blank">"infantilize"</a>.<br />
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Little GIRLS have pink, fluffy, sparkly shit marketed to them constantly. As for me, that's a whole different rant for a whole 'nother day on how that affects children insofar as shoving them face first into sexual/gender roles that aren't right for them. "Princess" overload can negatively impact girls, giving them messed up ideas on what it is to be female. One might say that the ripple effect of Princess indoctrination can be easily seen in adult women who endured it as girls, manifesting as a lack of confidence in self and capabilities. For now, I'll pass that one over to <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/contributors/jessica-bennett.html" target="_blank">Jessica Bennett</a> from <i>The Daily Beast</i>, with her article <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2011/01/26/disney-princesses-and-the-battle-for-your-daughter-s-soul.html" target="_blank">"Disney Princesses and the Battle for your Daughter's Soul"</a>.</div>
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what good is that blinged up pepper spray if it doesn't <a href="http://crystalroc.blogspot.com/2010/08/custom-swarovski-ipad-cases-xilion-rose.html" target="_blank">match your iPad??</a><br />
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Girl! How dare you spritz your fancy "liquid-haul-ass" into that assailants' eyeballs when it doesn't even match....<br />
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YOUR <a href="http://www.boginni.com/pink-swarovski-diamante-crystal-wedding-bridal-shoes-1996-p.asp" target="_blank">GODAWFUL BARBIE PINK SHOES</a>!!!!!!!!<br />
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The ones that are <a href="http://jezebel.com/high-heels-are-turning-you-into-a-hobbling-claw-toed-mo-1216480060" target="_blank">literally destroying your feet, your legs, and your back</a> BUT DAMN YOU LOOK GOOD!<br />
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Now if you're just sick of fussing about with your personal attackers, trying to aim just right, stop fucking around and get this bad boy, all GIRLED up just for you AND your girlyparts!<br />
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<span style="color: magenta; font-size: large;"><b style="background-color: black;">Taser C2 Fashion Pink w Laser</b></span><br />
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<i>"The TASER C2 is our newest product designed for personal protection. Utilizing the same technology as our proven law enforcement models, the C2 has incredible take down power."</i><br />
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I will AT LEAST hand it to this company that while they felt compelled to stick the term "fashion" on it (cause you know, the ladies will look at anything as long as it has "fashion" glued on there somewhere), at least they don't fuck around with the "sexy" and "cute" shit ad-nauseum. Plus, no one is ever going to willingly fuck with you again if you taze them.<br />
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<br />The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-55099784426268377462013-09-25T19:46:00.000-04:002013-09-25T19:46:04.486-04:00Put(t)in Out! Pro-LGBT, Anti-Putin Video Is Fucking AwesomeEnjoy the most colorful images you've ever seen of everyone's favorite Russian closet-case!<br />
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Yes! Without a doubt!<br />
I think Putin would like to be puttin out!<br />
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<a href="http://youtu.be/Bzeq6LdHPFo" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CLICK HERE for a direct link to "PUT(T)IN OUT"</a></div>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-73215674136040095252013-09-25T02:15:00.001-04:002013-09-25T02:15:39.238-04:00When Vaginas Attack: Wednesday Killer Ladyparts Edition (NSFW - duh)<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/4ECrtm7obXM" width="480"></iframe><br />
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Drugs are bad, mmkay?<br />
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The above video actually comes from <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0434125/" target="_blank">"Sexual Parasite: Killer Pussy"</a>, an astonishingly terribly scream flick from Japan (where else?). I still prefer the "No means NO" scene from the movie <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0780622/" target="_blank">"Teeth"</a>, which for clarification was about the timeless <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina_dentata" target="_blank">vagina dentata myth</a>. I'm thinking this clip, disturbing though it may be, could possibly do a fair amount of good if shown to a few unprepared dudebros..<br />
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Of course, to read something utterly fucking hilarious about vagina panic in the nonfictional, real world, I'm going to suggest a visit to <a href="http://thehoopla.com.au/" target="_blank">TheHoopla</a> to read <a href="http://corinnegrant.com.au/" target="_blank">Corinne Grant</a>'s epic <a href="http://thehoopla.com.au/attack-killer-vaginas/" target="_blank">"Attack of the Killer Vaginas</a>", written in response to THIS Australian Carefree Acti-Fresh commercial..<br />
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From what I understand, people went ape-shit down under at the mere mention of that highly unmentionable body part <i>down under there</i>.. THE VAGINA!<br />
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..to quote Ms. Grant:<br />
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"<strong style="color: #1e1e1e; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><i>Vaginas are way more dangerous than weather! Why do you think babies come out of them screaming?</i></strong><br />
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<i>There’s no point denying it any longer, ladies, what you keep between your legs is dangerous and must be stopped. Your fetid bits are the bringers-down of governments, the destroyers of morality and the breeders of lust.</i></div>
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<i>Thank god the good people of Family First have had the guts to stand up and say, “Enough! The V word is hurty on my ears!” Now all we can do is hope that something will be done to stop this evil scourge.</i></div>
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<strong><i>Believing that vaginas are a normal, acceptable part of the human anatomy is the first step towards eternal damnation.</i>"</strong></div>
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you tell em, Bitch!<br />
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Enjoy your day ;)The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-15667299026928134022013-09-25T00:12:00.002-04:002013-09-25T00:19:27.047-04:00Sarcasm FTW! "Rape Prevention" PSA Kicks Serious AssTFC heartily approves this message, brought to you by<a class="g-hovercard yt-uix-sessionlink yt-user-name " data-name="watch" data-sessionlink="feature=watch&ei=f2FCUo_WMM67gAKP3YC4DA" data-ytid="UCzUYuC_9XdUUdrnyLii8WYg" dir="ltr" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/allindiabakchod?feature=watch" style="border: 0px; color: #333333; cursor: pointer; display: inline-block; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; font-weight: bold; height: 22px; line-height: 13px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px;">All India Bakchod</a> kicks rape culture norms in the ass and out in the open for all to see. Good work, y'all!<br />
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The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-54164157682058966892013-09-24T19:48:00.000-04:002013-09-24T19:49:40.574-04:00Reality TV star goes to unreal lengths justifying spousal abuseWhat in the holy fuck, yo?<br />
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<a href="http://jezebel.com/real-housewife-melissa-gorgas-new-book-advocates-mar-1371722729" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">'Real Housewife' Melissa Gorga's New Book Advocates Marital Rape - Jezebel</a><br />
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Let me just get it out of the way.. I DON'T WATCH A LOT OF TV.. specifically because I have no desire to see <a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/2011/09/why-im-never-tagged-in-any-facebook.html" target="_blank">Kardashians</a>, <a href="http://mattchoo2.blogspot.com/2011/10/i-fucking-hate-real-housewives-shows-on.html" target="_blank">Hedonistic Housewives</a>, or any other kind of television show that follows women around to watch them shop, be catty for the sake of cattiness, bolster the validity of the worst kind of female stereotypes, or otherwise celebrate wastefulness and selfishness. Sorry people, Rome is burning and as such, I could care less about the window treatments, catfights, or in-home mani-pedi that some polished, plucked, spritzed, painted banshee is screeching about in her excessively expensive home.<br />
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As I get older, and see more and more people struggling to just fucking FEED themselves and their children on a daily basis, I can't help but find myself vomitously disgusted by these "Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous" throwbacks. But I digress...<br />
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NOW, as if ovary-bearing individuals are not slogging their way through enough problems with prevalent <a href="http://www.marshall.edu/wpmu/wcenter/sexual-assault/rape-culture/" target="_blank">rape-culture</a>, <a href="http://www.ihollaback.org/" target="_blank">street harrassmen</a>t, and <a href="http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/what-is-slut-shaming/" target="_blank">slut-shaming</a>, we've got a new bible for the apologetic <a href="http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm" target="_blank">battered housewife</a>.. <i>"Love Italian Style: The Secrets of My Hot and Happy Marriage"</i> - by Melissa Gorga<br />
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Not only does this book divulge personal details of this woman's systematic abuse and subjugation in her marriage at the hands of her husband, Joe, it goes on to profess that his temper, selfishness, and controlling behaviour are merely "manly" traits that should not only be tolerated, but cherished and lovingly acknowledged as true romance shown from a man to a woman.<br />
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In fact, he's so <i>lovingly</i> helicoptering this woman ALL the fucking time, that she wasn't permitted to so much as write the book HERSELF.. oh no.. there are sections written ENTIRELY BY JOE in HER book, to the point that it would appear he is interrupting and shouting over her in printed word as much as we can surmise he does in person.<br />
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Here's a real gem by the aforementioned Joe, wherein he appears to find sexual assault both hot and a husbandly duty:<br />
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"<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; line-height: 22px;">Men, I know you think your woman isn't the type who wants to be taken. But trust me, she is. Every girl wants to get her hair pulled once in a while. If your wife says "no," turn her around, and rip her clothes off. She wants to be dominated.</span><br />
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Women don't realize how easy men are. Just give us what we want."</div>
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DAMN, ladies! Just give them what they want and whenever they want it! Why didn't WE think of that? Probably because our ladybits make us overly emotional and illogical. Thank GOD for men like Joe and the brain-adjusting semen injections they can provide for us! However could we become the ideal dishwashing, brainless, babymaking, bedroom vamping, foundation-plastered automatons we ALL desire to be without all the dick that guys like Joe insist on giving us whenever they feel like it? ALL HAIL THE DEMANDING MAN AND HIS BLESSED SEXUAL AGGRESSION! Didn't you know that toddler-style temper tantrums and demands are COMPLETELY ACCEPTABLE out of grown men? The only difference is that when boys grow into men they are BIG and STRONG and can rip your clothes off to get the "cookies" as is the right of the husband and....<br />
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JESUS FUCKING CHRIST ON A CRACKER ARE YOU SERIOUS? REALLY?? SOMEONE ACTUALLY PUBLISHED A CONTEMPORARY BOOK MAKING MARITAL RAPE SOUND NORMAL???<br />
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Also, gals... did you know your husband is not supposed to be aware of the bodily functions you and he have in common? Melissa says that women don't shit.<br />
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Seriously.<br />
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"<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; line-height: 22px;">Girls don't poop. Me, never have. Never will. It just doesn't happen. Or, that's what Joe thinks! We've been married for nine years, and he has never once seen or smelled my business. How have I pulled this off? I don't do it when he's around or awake. In an emergency, I have my ways of pooping so he won't hear, smell, or see. It's a challenge."</span><br />
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Thanks a pantload, Melissa Gorga. .. er.. or not.<br />
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This might be where we've all gone wrong, girls. If you're not playing "Hide and Shit", your relationship is doomed. I gotta say, though.. if that is, indeed, "what Joe thinks", Joe is not the sharpest tool in the shed. He's a tool, sure.. just not a very sharp one.<br />
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More husbandly advice from the magnanimous Joe..<br />
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"<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; line-height: 22px;">To be on the same level, everyone has to get off the high horse. I don't care if the woman makes more money than the man, if he's a janitor and she's the president. After a fourteen-hour workday, if a man comes home and there's no dinner on the table, and his wife is on the phone, watching TV, or on the computer ignoring him, he won't feel respected."</span><br />
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So... leader of the free world best be home early makin' you a steak, huh? What a douchebag..<br />
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Oh, and this (from Joe):<br />
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"<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; line-height: 22px;">I don't feed babies, or change the diapers. My father never wiped my ass, and I don't wipe my babies' either."</span><br />
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Damn, Melissa.. how do you let him leave the house? I'm sure the bitches are lining up READY to pounce on this one! Sarcasm aside, its really this paragraph from the first chapter that kills me. Basically, a foreword that explains how she got into this mess in the first place..<br />
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"<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 24px;">I was envious of girls with daddies to turn to. They could make a call, and their fathers would swoop in to fix their car brakes, give them a loan, or make them feel treasured and special. I missed that closeness. I found myself drawn to a certain kind of man, a father figure who made me feel protected and would tell me right from wrong. They weren’t older than me per se. It was the authoritative and instructive personality type—someone who could take charge—that attracted me. I know a lot of women wouldn’t like that. But I responded to it."</span><br />
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If that isn't heartbreaking enough, she later tells of Joe's "instruction" in their married life together, outlining a pattern of abuse that first assures her that there is something wrong with her that needs to be "corrected" and how validating his controlling behaviour is essential to the health of their marriage.<br />
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"<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 15px; font-style: italic; line-height: 22px;">His style was to make corrections and to teach me from the beginning days of our marriage exactly how he envisioned our life together. Joe always says, "You got to teach someone to walk straight on the knife. If you slip, you're going to get cut." Even if something didn't bother him that badly, he'd bring it up. He wanted to make sure that I knew, for example, if I ran out to CVS and he came home from work to an empty house, he didn't like it. He'd call me and say, "I don't care if you're out all day long. But I don't want to come home to an empty house."</span><br />
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... you know.. God forbid she see herself as an individual person. According to Joe, she isn't. She's a WIFE, and therefore property meant to feed, breed, clean up after, and sexually serve him.<br />
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Someone got the big balls and wanna try some "feminism is outdated/unnecessary" shit with me today?<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-49384321221577232702013-09-24T16:35:00.001-04:002013-09-24T16:35:56.228-04:00I'm BACK, bitches!Bitchitudinousness reigns again!<br />
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Well, hopefully.. I do kinda have some shit to do around here<br />
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BUT!<br />
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I'm going to try and do better about ranting my ass off on a more regular basis. I find it therapeutic.<br />
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What have I been doing with myself, you might ask (or might not.. its been FOR-FUCKING-EVER since I wrote here).. well..<br />
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-Moving<br />
-Raising the mini-shebeast<br />
-Being pissed off at Google AdSense which has banned me for life over a stupid misclick which they said was me trying to inflate my own ad revenue.<br />
-Founding, forming, and whipping an MMORPG clan together<br />
-Becoming a more righteously indignant feminist, every fucking day.<br />
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Expect more activity here.<br />
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Silence is just not on my vagenda anymore.<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-52414307117591500032011-12-01T15:32:00.000-05:002011-12-01T15:32:31.580-05:00Kentucky Church Works To Maintain State's Public Image As Butt Of Hick Jokes<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">From <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/30/interracial-couple-banned-from-kentucky-church_n_1121582.html?ref=bv-life" target="_blank">HuffingtonPost.com</a></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">In a move to "promote greater unity" among its body and the Pike County community it serves, a small Kentucky church voted to ban interracial couples from membership and from participating in certain worship activities" </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/30/interracial-couple-banned-from-kentucky-church_n_1121582.html?ref=bv-life" target="_blank">click HERE for the rest of this story..</a></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Oh, good godDAMN, people.. What about interracial worship? Does the church allow anything other than white people? Is it that the pastor is having vision problems and mixing up the colors in the aisles confuses him? This is ridiculous. </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Maybe this is a good time for all the Caucasian gay/lesbian pairings to break the news to the church. I mean, this might be their "IN"..</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">It must be hard to breathe in a place with that much stupid in the air...</span></span><br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-47299638524699870692011-11-22T21:05:00.000-05:002011-11-22T21:05:24.829-05:00I got 99 problems but a Lich ain't one.. TFC waxes fangirl on Bethesda SoftworksWhere the hell have I been, you ask?<br />
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Well, between chasing my young child around and generally having one heck of a busy weekend, I got ahold of <a href="http://www.elderscrolls.com/skyrim" target="_blank">Elder Scrolls: Skyrim</a>, the game I've been waiting FIVE FREAKING YEARS FOR after I played<a href="http://www.elderscrolls.com/oblivion/" target="_blank"> Elder Scrolls: Oblivion</a> absolutely to death. Seriously, I've had to replace the damn disk at least once.<br />
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I know somewhere waaaaay back in my posts I mentioned that I am a hardcore gamer. This is both true and untrue. I AM a hardcore gamer, but <a href="http://www.bethsoft.com/" target="_blank">Bethesda Softworks</a> produces games that are so good, so unlike anything else available in gaming, that I've pretty much become a snob about it and I don't play much of anything else. I would rather make new characters and do replays of Bethesda games til they come out with something else, than play most of the formulaic crap that's available and popular.<br />
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If Oblivion, <a href="http://fallout.bethsoft.com/" target="_blank">Fallout 3</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallout:_New_Vegas" target="_blank">Fallout: New Vegas</a>, or Skyrim were multiplayer games, they'd probably kick me off the server, thinking I'd hacked the thing somehow. I'm honestly that good. My boyfriend got me this game because he knew I was more likely to cry over this than some stupid piece of jewelry or some other girly thing, and when he was at <a href="http://www.gamestop.com/" target="_blank">GameStop</a>, the cashier tried to sell him the strategy guide for the game.. to which my (surprisingly insightful) boyfriend replied:<br />
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"No way, man. She won't HAVE that in her house. If I bring that home, she'll consider it cheating.. or like, spoiling the end of a movie. She's waited five years for this game. If I bring that home, she'll send me, and the guide, back HERE to live".<br />
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heh... too bad he's not kidding, huh?<br />
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Posts on the subject to come. I have to go throw a fireball at some giant freaking poisonous spiders right now.<br />
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<a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Feminine Context</a>The Feminine Contexthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14532102482262926005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7291535266065544959.post-90701223200422970652011-11-14T18:48:00.001-05:002011-11-14T18:53:34.980-05:00Sexual, Female, AND Human? Why Sasha Gray Can't Catch A Break11/11/2011<br />
From <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/11/sasha-grey-porn-star-read_n_1088017.html?ref=mostpopular" target="_blank">HuffingtonPost:</a><br />
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<i>"How would you feel if an adult film star read to your seven year old child? Believe it or not, some parents in California are pretty angry that it happened in their kids' classroom.</i><br />
<i>Porn legend Sasha Grey was a guest reader at Emerson Elementary School in Compton, California earlier this month, joining first and third grade students in their Read Across America day. Grey certainly enjoyed the experience, tweeting, "Spent the am with Read Across America Compton, reading to the sweetest 1st & 3rd grade students @ Emerson Elementary!"</i><br />
<i>The problem, TMZ reports, is that parents aren't happy -- and that school officials, instead of addressing the issue, are claiming it never happened. Of course, it'd be silly for Grey to tweet about it if it hadn't happened, and more importantly, TMZ has a photo of the event (as they always seem to do)."</i><br />
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Ms. Gray gave a <a href="http://www.tmz.com/2011/11/11/sasha-grey-porn-star-elementary-school/#.TsGBscMZb-A" target="_blank">statement to TMZ</a> regarding her participation in the <a href="http://www.nea.org/grants/886.htm" target="_blank">Read Across America</a> child literacy program, in which she writes:<br />
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<i>"Read Across America" is a program that was designed to promote literacy and instill a lifelong love of reading in elementary school students. Promoting education is an effort that is close to my heart. Illiteracy contributes to poverty; encouraging children to pick up a book is fundamental.</i><br />
<i> I believe education is a universal right. I committed to this program with the understanding that people would have their own opinions about what I have done, who I am and what I represent.</i><br />
<i> I am an actor. I am an artist. I am a daughter. I am a sister. I am a partner. I have a past that some people may not agree with, but it does not define who I am. </i><br />
<i>I will not live in fear of it. To challenge non-profit education programs is an exercise in futility, counter-productive and anti-educational. </i><br />
<i>I cannot thank my fans and 'Read Across America' enough for supporting my decision. Your support and kind words continue to inspire me. I believe in the future of our children, and I will remain an active supporter and participant in education-focused initiatives."</i><br />
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Good for you, Sasha Gray. What a great thing for you to do for a group of kids that certainly enjoyed your reading to them. If only most kids' parents would take that kind of time and read to their children.<br />
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I don't have a damn thing against porn, and neither should you. I'm not talking about illegal activities involving non-consenting individuals. No one's backing that up. I'm talking about good ol' American (Japanese? Russian? German? Whatever floats your boat) porn, that almost everyone has looked at at some point or another, if not several times a week... or day.. or in an alternate window while you're reading this very post.<br />
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Both hands on the keyboard, buddy. I'm trying to tell you something, here.<br />
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Okay. Fine. Finish and come back after you've washed your hands.<br />
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Regarding porn..<br />
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For starters, you probably watch it. <a href="http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/internet-pornography-statistics.html" target="_blank">Statistical data</a> is hard to count on because one group or another is constantly tweaking numbers up or down to try and make a point, but let's just say that the majority of reports about adult pornography use on the internet indicate that a whole fuck of a lot of everyone is watching, viewing, or reading some porn at any given time of the day or night. If one were to try and draw some sort of "average score" out of these extremely varied reports on internet pornography usage, it probably boils down to somewhere around 52% of men and 50% of women who at least admitted to it. Obviously, these numbers don't even begin to account for people who look at it and don't want to tell anyone, or who look at "specialty" porn designed to satisfy fetishes that are based on objects or ideas that most people would never identify with the term "sexy". Many people are sexually excited by the damndest, and quite frankly, most harmless things. I for one don't think I have any business whatsoever getting my panties in a wad over whether someone is attracted or excited by things like <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plushophilia" target="_blank">stuffed animals</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dendrophilia_(paraphilia)" target="_blank">trees</a>, or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Formicophilia" target="_blank">bugs</a>. I am in no way required to participate in anyone else's turn-on, if asked, I can say no.. so how is it any of my concern if my neighbor gets a semi because he thinks the myrtle tree in my yard is <i>hot as hell</i>. Good for him. At least someone is noticing my tree and NOT how long it's been since I cut the grass beneath it. What do I care? If everyone is obeying the law, then he's in his house getting his jollies from that myrtle and its sexy, bark-free body, and he's not on my lawn humping it. Everyone's happy.<br />
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If you insist that you don't partake of the massive erotic pornucopia online, well what the hell ever, okay? I'm just going to be nice about it and nod, but don't push it. Porn use is so prevalent among adults that as much as you want to get a bee in your butt (fetish?) about it, probably half of your knitting club does things with their needles that would make you not only cross your legs but strap them together with leather belts. Problem being, this might only turn them on MORE. The real point is that there's NO point getting upset about it. Porn is everywhere and it's been here since our ancestors figured out they could use Saber-Toothed Cat poo like crayons on their cave walls, and that an extra stick limb on a stick figure could represent a penis.<br />
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Pornography is no longer the sad business of taking starry-eyed would be actresses and making depraved whores out of them, if it ever really was. Adult film stars see themselves as just that, "stars", not victims or objects of pity. <a href="http://www.cnbc.com/id/40766155" target="_blank">Adult entertainment is big freaking business</a>, and as such, working standards have improved if for no other reason than to keep everyone's asses covered on a legal front. The porn industry creates jobs, and is well-recognized as the <a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2010/TECH/04/23/porn.technology/" target="_blank">primary driving force behind many of the technological development</a>s that have come to benefit both businesses and consumers alike. Internet technology like credit-card processing and verification, website membership security, encryption, video technology, and file-optimization have all been developed more rapidly, competitively, and economically as a means to buy and sell adult content online.<br />
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There are a few other things that can be said, specifically about people who actually work in front of the cameras in the adult entertainment industry. The one thing that pornography professionals have done differently than most of us is that they've demonstrated that they've got 'nads enough to work in an industry that, although considered taboo, is actually STILL THRIVING in our otherwise depressed economy. I believe it's also worth mentioning that adult film actresses and models are working in a field that, by the efforts and intentions of society's effort to promote women's sexual liberty, they really ought to be given a bit more respect for. I don't mean that we should be placing banners up everywhere we go, featuring this week's <a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=D.V.D.A" target="_blank">DVDA</a> princess, but considering how many people are actually watching all of this porn, how is it fair to act like these people are doing something subversive and terrible?<br />
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Why is it that when sexual acts are filmed, we talk about the individuals engaged in that act as though they should be ashamed of it? How is it any different than what the majority of single adults get drunk and do any given weekend, other than that the adult film industry is more likely to enforce the use of condoms and STD/STI testing before adults engage in sexual intercourse? Sometimes, in an effort to promote feminism, porn actresses will be discussed as though they are brainwashed, patriarchy-indoctrinated "victims" which in itself is degrading, not uplifting, to these women. How is it that violent, gory crime dramas are winning awards, but the act of two (or more?) adults doing something together that makes them feel freaking AWESOME is considered a cause of detriment to society? Sasha Gray, for example, is a beautiful young woman who has recently <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1576875563/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=thefemicont-20&linkCode=as2&camp=217145&creative=399369&creativeASIN=1576875563" target="_blank">published a book</a> (adult in nature, but intellectual and artistic) and is proud of her work, as she has every right to be. How is it anyone's place to tell her she shouldn't be? She's achieved a great deal of success in her former career, and is currently expanding into new territory. How is it fair that we shower women like <a href="http://thefemininecontext.blogspot.com/2011/09/why-im-never-tagged-in-any-facebook.html" target="_blank">Kim Kardashian</a> with press, attention, and fan-worship for doing, well.. nothing without her mom's direction and her dad's money, yet we take the first opportunity we can to piss on an adult film actress who took an opportunity to do something nice and READ to little kids?<br />
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There are certainly many varieties of adult entertainment that are presented with elements of violence, and these cater to specific fetishes. Maybe it's true that much of available pornographic material promotes illusory, airbrushed, unrealistic images of women and men. It's part of the fantasy, and anyone who's had sex more than twice can easily understand that fantasy and reality are two very different things. Any information, be it text or image, that is adult in nature can be confusing to children.. this is very true. The rest of the world is not supposed to raise your children or moderate its existence in case your children see. As a parent, it's your job to explain aspects of life to your kids, often as they come up.<br />
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It's also a matter of picking your battles at an age-appropriate time for your own child.<br />
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In the case of Sasha Gray, there's no reason that any child she read to needs to know anything about her past, and should it come up, a simple "she made movies that are only for adults" would suffice for a child within that age-range. Making a big huge fucking deal out of it is only going to make the situation utterly fascinating to a child, who will then explore the issue that they thought NOTHING about before it garnered such a reaction out of their parents.<br />
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The real "problem" is that Sasha Gray doesn't feel bad about herself, her choices, or what she's done. If she seemed ashamed of her sexuality, or a victim of the porn industry, it might make it easier for people to accept her. When pressed to discuss a hypothetical situation that would be completely identical to hers, a lot of people would disagree with condemning her for reading to those children. Our society, with its seemingly indelible stain of puritanism, still has quite a lot to learn. Maybe even from a porn star.<br />
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